Sometimes we can be so sure of our opinion, and that everybody else is wrong, we simply won’t listen to reason. What’s even worse is when you are absolutely sure you are correct, only to find out that you were mistaken. Oops. This can be especially humbling if you said things that you wish you hadn’t.
Here’s a decent secret to keep away from falling into that trap. It starts from an appreciation of the disparity between an associated viewpoint and a dissociated perspective. Ninety nine percent of the time, when we are awake, and aware, we are in an associated frame. Meaning that we see reality from our own eyes, and feel things from our own understanding.
For most of us, the only time we ever perceive things from a dissociated point of view is in our memories. When we think back to memories, usually recollections that occurred long ago, we occasionally see them as if we were a third party watching events take place, as well as watching ourselves.
Occasionally when people have dreams they also see things in a dissociated way, as they are enjoying themselves as if they were a third party observer. Most people aren’t even aware of the difference, but it can be an exceptionally useful skill to change back and forth, in actual time.
The way to do this is first do it while you are on your own. This may sound like it’s some kind of ludicrous teaching for remote viewing, but it works just the same. As you are relaxing there in your chair, instead of watching the things in front of you, imagine that you are off to the side, seeing yourself sitting in the chair. Describe out loud what you see. Try if from different perspectives from within the room.
When you’re set, try this out in public. Relax in a coffee shop and picture seeing yourself, from a dissociated, third person view, from many diverse perspectives. Next step is to envision that you are other people, watching you. Use you impulse to help you picture seeing you as they see you.
After you’ve got that down, it’s time to move on to the next step. Look at and listen to yourself from a variety of perspectives while you are in a chat with somebody. Now you can switch between three unique perspectives. From your own perspective, from your conversation partner’s perspective, and from an independent, third person viewpoint.
Once you get fairly decent at this, you’ll find it’s a good deal easier to see things from the viewpoints of others, and this will hugely amplify your ability to persuade and influence others, as well as avoiding those horrible arguments.
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